How to Tell if it’s Gaslighting

How to differentiate when you’re in a relationship where Gasight-ing is a behavior that is occasionally occurring in a way that indicates other underlying issues from when you are with in a situation of entrenched emotional abuse with a Gaslight-er. Enjoy, xx

The One Thing Couples Fight About

Recently, I’ve been noticing that couples usually only have one fight. It has different permutations. It refracts and underlines many other points of tension, dissatisfaction and conflict. But if you go real deep- it is usually the same fight over and over. And here’s my take: I think what we are fighting for, at a…

The Connection Between Trauma and Karma

I have been meditating on the connection between trauma and karma. I have come to feel that the phenomenon we encounter in 2019 and call ‘trauma’, ancient people also encountered and called ‘karma’. In this video, I explore how the concept of karma can help us understand and navigate through the trauma states and desires…

The Only 5 Massage Tips You’ll Ever Need

Love is one of the greatest powers we have access to as human beings. Love is a force, love is a radiance, love flows though us. Here are some tips for tapping into love through massage. To frame one of my deeper intentions for this video, here is one of my favorite quotes from Martin…

The Philosophical Significance of Narcissism and Codependency

Welcome to one of my favorite mytho-psychological, onto-epistemological phenomenons! I have do a deep study of these issues, personally, anecdotally and exploring the research. In the end, I have come to the conclusion that these clusters of behaviors and internal mechanisms are part of an underlying issue that has to do with the ways in…

Community: And Other Positive Disillusionments

Here is a video of a talk I did at the People’s Philosophy Colloquium in Portland, Oregon. They are an awesome group, go check em out! The talk is about a trend I have noticed about how community is being held up as an answer to some of the toughest social and existential challenges we…

Your Look

I made this video after a fight with my partner when I felt like I finally understood his point, his way of seeing things and what he was trying to tell me.